Join the MateQuest Adventure Today!
Singles, Meet MateQuest
what is it?
A life-transforming expedition into today’s dating world—not alone, but with a trained guide.
More than just another dating program—it’s an adventure! You’ll be focusing on your own personal journey, while picking up fellow adventurers along the way for fireside chats and engaging insights among new friends.
Where you’ll elevate spiritually in your walk with Christ and deepen your relationship with Him.
Climbing to the summit of strength and wisdom, as you date with intention and quest for a mate founded in greater purpose. No more casual encounters and counterfeit love.
Loneliness, be gone! Become a vital human in the tribe on this adventure to finding healthy love. Leave the world behind for a season—and come take the journey of a lifetime. You’ll never be the same.
Is This Adventure for You?
who's it for?
MateQuest isn’t just a dating experience—it’s a transformational adventure for Kingdom-minded singles who are ready to change their approach to love and make healthier, more intentional choices.
If you’re done with endless swiping, casual encounters, misaligned pairings, repeated heartbreak, or passively waiting for love to “just happen,” this is your invitation to take a clinically-guided, faith-rooted path toward real results.
This journey is for those who are ready to:
- Break patterns and prepare themselves for a healthy relationship
- Learn how to recognize true compatibility beyond chemistry from the start
- Avoid the costly mistake of committing to the wrong person too soon
- Move beyond surface connection to a meaningful, well-matched relationship
- Take your business off social media and step into a private, distraction-free space where real connection and intentional conversations happen
- Join a structured process—with expert tools, guided insight, and a clear path to finding a healthy love relationship
This is about more than dating. It’s about equipping yourself—intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually—for a relationship that reflects God’s best for your life.
If you’re ready to stop hoping for love and start preparing for it, MateQuest may be just what you've been praying for! Join the adventure today.
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What is a “Kingdom-minded” single?
A Kingdom-minded single is someone who desires to live, love, and build relationships in alignment with God’s Word—placing faith, purpose, and biblical values at the center of their life and romantic journey.
The MQ Adventure: 3 Checkpoints to Healthy Love
how does it work?
While you’ll have ongoing support throughout MateQuest, the journey is structured into 3 strategic checkpoints - each designed to equip you with the tools, mindset, and strategies you need to prepare for and pursue a healthy love relationship.
Each checkpoint builds on the one before it—helping you lay a strong foundation, date with clarity, and move toward a healthy love relationship with confidence and wisdom.
You’ll move through the checkpoints at your own pace—staying within each one as long as you need before advancing. This isn’t a race. It’s a guided journey with clinician and community support that meets you right where you are.
Each checkpoint includes a specific tool designed to help you succeed at that phase of your journey. To learn more about these tools, visit: www.itsthebusinessoflove.com/tools
Checkpoint:
The Book
Date Ready Bootcamp
Prepare for Healthy
why it matters
This checkpoint sets the foundation for your entire journey.
In this intensive 24 week Date Ready Bootcamp, you’ll step back from dating to focus on your healing, habits, and heart.
With guidance from your clinician and community, and The Book – Date Ready as your tool, you’ll clarify your values, address past patterns, and prepare to approach dating with renewed confidence, faith, and purpose.
Checkpoint:
The Game
Date with Purpose
Recognize Who’s Healthy
why it matters
Now it’s time to take what you’ve learned in Date Ready Bootcamp and apply it while dating.
This checkpoint equips you to date with clarity using Choices, a fun, therapist-recommended card game with a compatibility scoring system.
As you explore new connections, you’ll gain insight, ask better questions, and spot alignment sooner—with the support of your MateQuest tribe.
Checkpoint:
The Assessment
Move Toward Commitment
Confirm It's Healthy
why it matters
As your relationship deepens, it’s time to pause and evaluate.
This checkpoint guides you through a focused decision-making process using The Assessment—a clinical tool trusted by professionals worldwide.
With your clinician’s support, you’ll explore emotional health, shared vision, and long-term fit, so you can move forward with peace, or pivot with wisdom.
Step Inside Our Virtual MateQuest Headquarters!
Welcome to MateQuest Headquarters — where your personal adventure toward healthy love begins.
As you step inside, know that this space was created just for you! You’re not just signing up for a program — you're beginning your personal adventure toward healthy love. Guided by your clinician, you’ll navigate the journey with faith, strategy, and renewed confidence—preparing for a love that reflects God's best, not the world’s standards.
You may be among the first MateQuesters setting foot on the trail, but others will join the adventure in God’s perfect timing. We’re here to cheer you on and guide you every step of the way on your trail to healthy love!
Transition to the couples side of our community when the time is right and you find a mate!
So Much to Get Excited About!
what's included:
Your checkpoint 1, Date Ready Bootcamp experience is intended as 24 weekly lessons (a 6 month adventure) and includes:
🎯Weekly Live Meetups
Join your clinician and fellow Questers each week for a live, on-camera group session where we gather face to face (virtually) for real conversation and spiritual growth. These meetups are a space to process Date Ready lessons, reflect on personal insights, and build genuine connection with others walking the same path. It’s part book club, part support circle — and all heart.
 🎯Weekly Adventure Challenges
Throughout your MateQuest experience, you’ll receive a new challenge each week inside the community to keep you moving forward.
In Checkpoint 1 (Bootcamp), each challenge aligns with a chapter of the Date Ready book — read, reflect, take action, and mark it complete. Once you complete all 24 lessons and earn your Date Ready Bootcamp Grad badge, you’ll unlock a new phase of challenges focused on intentional dating and discernment in Checkpoints 2 and 3.
And yes… surprise bonus challenges may appear along the trail to keep things exciting!
🎯Private Members-only Discussion Circles
Guided conversation spaces designed around different parts of the love journey. This is where you can document your own revelation moments, ask bold questions, and connect with fellow Questers who are navigating their own path.
While this journey is your personal mission, you never know when you’ll meet a new Quester who’s just joined the adventure — and that’s part of what makes it so powerful.
Together, we pray as a Tribe.
🎯Earn Badges + Climb the HLI Leaderboard
You’ll earn 100 points for every weekly challenge you complete — and you never know when a bonus challenge might pop up along the trail! Points are also awarded for engaging in discussion circles and showing up for the community.
Kick off your journey by earning the MQ Tribe Member badge after your first challenge. Complete all the Date Ready book lessons and you’ll level up to Date Ready Bootcamp Grad status.
Feeling competitive? Track your progress on the HLI Leaderboard to see who’s leading the way!
Grow. Earn. Climb. And let the adventure fuel your fire.
🎯Discounted 1:1 Virtual Clinic Sessions
As a MateQuest member, you’ll receive access to private, clinician-led sessions for just $99 per 55-minute session (regularly $150). Whether you’re working through something personal or want one-on-one support for your love journey, help is here when you need it.
🎯 Special Guest Webinars
Throughout the year, you’ll get access to exclusive virtual sessions featuring faith-filled experts in love, relationships, healing, and purpose. Whether it’s live or on-demand, these bonus experiences are designed to stretch, inspire, and equip you for the season you’re in — and the love you’re preparing for.
🎯 First Look Access to New Products & Experiences
As a MateQuest member, you’ll get early access to new resources, retreats, courses, and tools before they launch to the public. You’ll be the first to know — and the first to grow.
🎯 Founding Member Perks
Claim your place as one of the first 50 MateQuesters and lock in special launch pricing for as long as you stay! Founding Members get early access to retreats, matchmaking pilots, beta experiences, and exclusive perks reserved only for our original Tribe.
Spots are limited — once they're gone, they're gone! Step into your MateQuest adventure now and secure your legacy.
After your Date Ready Bootcamp Graduation, in checkpoint 2 you'll be prepared to unlock:
 🎯 Monthly Singles Social Events
In checkpoint 2, join us each month for a fun, virtual gathering hosted right inside our private community. From Choices Game Night to Single Life Bingo or creative activities like vision boarding, each event is adventure-themed and designed to spark joy, laughter, and real connection with other Kingdom-minded singles — no pressure, just good people on the same journey.
🎯 Monthly Clinician Q&A (Office Hours)
In checkpoint 2, bring your questions, big or small, and let’s talk. These monthly drop-in sessions are your chance to ask what’s on your heart and get honest, faith-based guidance from your relationship clinician. You’ll also pick up wisdom just by hearing what other Questers are navigating too — we’re all learning as we go.
Think of it as your monthly check-in with “The Love Doctor” — minus the co-pay!
Claim Your $1,297 Founding Member Bonus!
premium bootcamp curriculum access
The first 50 MateQuesters will receive complimentary access to our Date Ready Bootcamp Curriculum — a $1,297 value.
This premium, clinician-developed course features 24 structured, week-by-week lessons for those seeking a deeper experience during the journey — including practical exercises, Bible verses for reflection, love & science fun facts, guided journal prompts, and Clinician Views, all with real-world application to strengthen your path to healthy love during Checkpoint 1.
No additional cost — just our gift to you for boldly beginning the adventure early.
Limited to the first 50 Founding Members.
Trail Supplies
what do I need?
Before you hit the trail, here’s what you’ll need:
🎯Required Text: The Date Ready book is essential for your journey through Checkpoint 1. If you don’t already have a copy, you can add it at checkout. U.S. residents will receive a physical book and journal - paperback combo ($30 + S/H).
🎯Membership Reminder: MateQuest is a premium add-on to your HLI General Pass ($39/month)
Choose Your MQ Adventure Pass
how much does it cost to join?
Two simple paths to start your MateQuest adventure:
6-month Pass - Best Value!
$995
One-time payment of $995
Save over $325 and secure your full MateQuest journey for the next 6 months — uninterrupted and fully committed.
Monthly Pass
$220
Pay as you go for
$220/month (billed monthly)
Flexibility to walk the trail at your own pace with month-to-month access.