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what is it?

Welcome to something different. If you’ve been craving a space that takes both your faith and your future seriously — a place where real growth, healthy connection, and Kingdom values collide — you’re in the right place.

The healthy love institute is the faith-based learning community of the business of love - combining faith, science, and clinical research to equip singles and couples with the tools to create a healthy love relationship.

It’s a virtual space where you can connect with others at the same stage of your love journey, engage in meaningful activities while forming friendships that align with your Kingdom values, and grow into the best version of yourself.

Whether you're just starting your healing process, preparing to date again, or investing in a growing relationship — you're not walking this journey alone anymore. Welcome to the community that's built to support your heart, your hope, and your next chapter.

who belongs here? you do — if you’re serious about having healthy love

who's it for?

Whether you're single, dating intentionally, or already in a relationship, the healthy love institute is your space to grow.

This community is designed for Kingdom-minded individuals who are tired of doing love the world's way and ready to do it God's way — without losing the fun, realness, or emotional depth.

You belong here if:

You're a single adult committed to personal growth and finding purpose-driven love.
You're in a relationship and want to build a foundation that lasts.
You’ve been hurt, disappointed, or confused by love — but you haven’t given up.
You're ready to be supported by a community of others walking the same path, guided by faith and professional tools that work.
You want to stop guessing when it comes to love — and start growing into the version of yourself that attracts and sustains it.

your path to healthy love starts here

how does it work?

When you join the healthy love institute, you unlock access to a vibrant private community, guided by clinically-backed tools, biblical truth, and a structured path toward better love.

Here’s what to expect:

start with general membership (HLI general pass) – This gives you full access to the HLI Community Lounge, open discussions, spiritual growth meetups, and first access to all new programs.
choose your path – You decide how deep you want to go. Programs like MateQuest (for singles) are available as membership add-ons — each individually priced (some free, some paid). These programs offer structured journeys with weekly lessons, group discussions, and growth challenges. As the community expands, even more programs will be added to support every stage of love.
grow with your stage – As your love life evolves, so do your options. Whether you're starting fresh, healing, dating intentionally, or moving toward commitment, there’s something here for you.

All programs are designed to help you go at your own pace, with clear clinical steps and spiritual alignment at the core of everything we do.

"The right relationship starts with the right foundation — and that begins with you."

ready to do love smarter, stronger, and spirit-led?

why join?

Most people don’t fail at love because they don’t want it — they fail because they were never taught how to build it right.

When you join HLI, you're not just joining a community — you're saying yes to a new way of doing a love relationship, one that’s:

clinically informed – Every program is built on over 17 years of relational expertise.
faith-based & kingdom focused – We don’t just quote scripture. We show you how to live it in love and life!
real-world ready – Whether you're online dating, blending families, or navigating breakups, the support is practical and real.
growth-oriented – You’ll learn what it means to date wisely, love purposefully, and build something lasting.

This is the missing piece for so many singles and couples. Healthy love doesn’t just happen — it’s cultivated. And here, you’re not doing it alone.

healthy love takes intention.
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your first step: the HLI general pass

what's included in membership?

Joining the healthy love institute starts with a simple step — becoming a member of our private community.

what’s included in your HLI general pass ($39/month):

access to the HLI community lounge: Join a positive and supportive discussion space where you can connect with other members in HLI, share experiences, and grow together at any stage of love — whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship.
attend community-wide meetups: Join exclusive HLI members-only virtual meetups (not open to the general public) that will help you create healthy love.
spiritual growth and fellowship: Engage in virtual gatherings where you’ll grow spiritually through group Bible studies, prayer, praise reports, and meaningful biblical discussions that strengthen your faith.
early bird access: Be the first to register for new programs before they open to the public.
a clinically-led safe space: This is a private, professional environment — not social media. You're learning and growing alongside others who are serious about healthy love (and following Jesus!).

This is your first step — a front-row seat to everything HLI has to offer. As a HLI General Pass member, you’ll stay connected to the heart of the community while having the option to explore additional programs as they’re released.

MateQuest, our very first signature program for Kingdom-minded singles, is just launching — and more experiences will be added over time to support every stage of your love journey. Your path to healthy love starts here, and we’re honored to walk it with you.

Now is the perfect time to become a member. As we launch this new community, founding members can lock in our lowest monthly rate — even as new programs, events, and experiences are added. Don’t wait until the crowd shows up. Join now and grow with us from the start.

inside HLI, you’ll find...

what makes HLI different?

love isn’t just something you feel — it’s something you learn to do well.
At the healthy love institute, you’re not just joining a community — you’re stepping into an experience designed to help you grow in every area of your love life. From personal transformation to real connection and spiritual alignment, here’s what you can expect when you become a part of HLI:

🎯a real community

meet others on the same love journey, right from your screen.

🎯faith at the center

grow spiritually while you grow in natural love, through Christ.

🎯tools for growth

learn how to build a healthy relationship from the inside out.

you've been led here for a reason.
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level up the best version of you